You don’t need to look good while becoming whole. You just need to start.
Let’s be clear: healing is not aesthetic. It’s not perfectly captioned, soft-lit breakdowns followed by a green juice. Sometimes healing looks like rage. Sometimes it looks like sobbing in your car. Sometimes it looks like finally telling someone to f*ck off after years of staying quiet.
And that’s okay.
This piece dives into the brutal, beautiful, non-linear process of becoming whole again. Kerry unpacks why messy emotions are valid, why perfection is the enemy of growth, and why you should stop waiting to “feel better” and start walking through the fire instead. Because healing isn’t supposed to be pretty. It’s supposed to be honest—and that’s where real transformation begins.